Sometimes people just hurt you without really knowing it, and sometimes they hurt you out of spite. You can be rude, nasty, and mean, but when you hurt someone it not only goes to the heart but it goes to the bone! You can apologize but it does not take the hurt away.
I learned back in the 80’s not to hurt someone, and I am not talking about physically hurting someone, I am talking about mentally hurting someone. Unfortunately I made that mistake, and even though I apologized to the friend I hurt, out relationship was never the same, and it was all my fault.
Please think about what you say before you say it, you cannot take back hurt!
Sometimes someone puts their heart and soul into something, and when you mock it, or attack it you can truly hurt that person, it has happened to me.
I really like what this quote from the Dalai Lama says!
‘Tis easier to hurt than heal. ~German proverb
A stiff apology is a second insult. . . The injured party does not want to be compensated because he has been wronged; he wants to be healed because he has been hurt. ~Gilbert K. Chesterton
Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain.. and most fools do. Dale Carnegie
Well enough about hurt, I do not want to be on such a downer but felt this needed to be said!
Please think about what you say before you say it, you cannot take back hurt!
We all need to practice this more!
As always Rusty loves you!!!!!!
Rusty Carroll's life, and observations. 